January 18th, 2009

tums

fb status: Tums can't believe it, but then again.. karma's a bitch.

i really, really, really, really, REALLY couldnt believe it at first. but yup, there it is. in black and white. and i am LAUGHING MY ASS OFF.

or maybe i shouldnt be? lets just say i sort of expected it.

*****

last night was ♥♥♥. wouldnt have spent it another way!

we traipsed around eastwood, had a HUGE dinner, realized there really was nothing to do there (even with the new mall already open), and decided to relocate to fort. where there was a lot to do (and a lot of people to see! haha) but my shoes were killing me and so we rested for a bit at marta's. YUUUUUUUUM and then we drank a bit, talked and talked and talked for hours, people-watched, and just had a really good night.

its nights like these i realize that life is FABULOUS, Jess is AMAZING and sometimes you really just have to enjoy and let go

*****

because of ojt (because remember, i was stuck with a computer that limited me to 'safe' websites like yahoo, wikipedia, etc), i somehow got hooked on visiting yahoo and the links they display on their main page are actually somewhat helpful. today, the featured article is Dating 101: Five Things Super-Happy Couples Do Every Day, which i found to be SO TRUE.

Dating 101: Five Things Super-Happy Couples Do Every Day

Daily Habit #1: Talk to Each Other

cholo and i notice that on days that we hardly get to talk (or see each other), we find things to fight about. so we always make it a point to talk, even just on the phone, and tell each other about our day, etc.

Daily Habit #2: Flirt

this is so cheesy but yes, i am still very much pa-cute with cholo even after all this time!! and he is too, believe me. the funniest, keso-est times are when we're texting and making pacute over the phone. its EXTREMELY MUSHY haha. but its also really, really sweet

Daily Habit #3: Get Stupid Together

okay, we're experts at this. we have 'games' that we invented (like our 'how many people you know' game) and play everytime we go out, we have codenames for certain people and/or things, and we come up with these outrageous ideas and plans that are not realistic or even possible.

Daily Habit #4: Declare Your Independence

the first year or so of our relationship, i guess i was a bit on the possessive, jealous side. thanks to certain things that happened though, i guess i somehow loosened up and realized that even if we're together, we're still each our own person and that we arent joined at the hip. literally and figuratively.

Daily Habit #5: Share a Spiritual Moment

praying together every morning and night, rosaries, masses and days weekends together. i love that cholo's the one person who really inspired me to be more prayerful.

i admit that cholo and i arent SUPER happy every single day, and that after 4 1/2 years we still have the weirdest arguments about the pettiest things. BUT we're really still very happy with each other. like 99.9% of the time. one thing though that im sure of is that i found the one person i will SUPER love everyday of my life. and yes, im done